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Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

CBT helps children and teens see how thoughts, feelings and actions connect, and gives them practical skills to feel better.

The CBT cycle

Situation Thoughts Feelings Actions Body What happened? What went throughmy mind? What did I feel? What did I do? How did I react? What did I noticein my body? each part affects the others

A hard situation sets off thoughts, feelings, body sensations and actions, and each one feeds the others. CBT helps your child change one link, so the whole cycle shifts.

In my practice

“Children are often more flexible thinkers than adults give them credit for. Given the right tools, they surprise themselves.”

Pamela Wallberg, RCC

Understanding the approach

Cognitive behavioural therapy is a structured, skills-based approach. It is built on a simple idea: what we think, how we feel and what we do all affect each other.

When a child’s thoughts become stuck on worry, self-doubt or anger, their feelings and behaviours follow. With children, CBT is active, concrete and often playful. We use games, drawings, stories and experiments to help children spot unhelpful thoughts, test them and try new responses. Parents are involved so skills carry over to home.

Origins and evolution

CBT was developed by psychiatrist Aaron Beck in the 1960s, building on behaviour therapy. It was adapted for children and teens in later decades, for example by Philip Kendall’s work on child anxiety, using games, drawings and stories.

The science

CBT is among the best-studied psychological treatments for children and teens. A Cochrane review found CBT probably more effective than no treatment for anxiety disorders in young people, and a large trial (Walkup et al., 2008) found that CBT and sertraline each worked better than placebo for child anxiety, with the combination working best. For adolescent depression, the TADS trial found the combination of CBT and fluoxetine worked best, while CBT alone was not clearly better than placebo in that study (TADS Team, 2004).

James, A. C., Reardon, T., Soler, A., James, G., & Creswell, C. (2020). Cognitive behavioural therapy for anxiety disorders in children and adolescents. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews, (11), CD013162. link

Wang, Z., et al. (2017). Comparative effectiveness and safety of cognitive behavioral therapy and pharmacotherapy for childhood anxiety disorders: A systematic review and meta-analysis. JAMA Pediatrics, 171(11), 1049–1056. link

Higa-McMillan, C. K., Francis, S. E., Rith-Najarian, L., & Chorpita, B. F. (2016). Evidence base update: 50 years of research on treatment for child and adolescent anxiety. Journal of Clinical Child & Adolescent Psychology, 45(2), 91–113. link

Walkup, J. T., et al. (2008). Cognitive behavioral therapy, sertraline, or a combination in childhood anxiety. New England Journal of Medicine, 359(26), 2753–2766. link

Zhou, X., et al. (2020). Comparative efficacy and acceptability of antidepressants, psychotherapies, and their combination for acute treatment of children and adolescents with depressive disorder: A systematic review and network meta-analysis. The Lancet Psychiatry, 7(7), 581–601. link

TADS Team (2004). Fluoxetine, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and their combination for adolescents with depression. JAMA, 292(7), 807–820. link

Sharma, S., Hucker, A., Matthews, T., Grohmann, D., & Laws, K. R. (2021). Cognitive behavioural therapy for anxiety in children and young people on the autism spectrum: A systematic review and meta-analysis. BMC Psychology, 9, 151. link

Gould, K. L., Porter, M., Lyneham, H. J., & Hudson, J. L. (2018). Cognitive-behavioral therapy for children with anxiety and comorbid attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 57(7), 481–490. link

Kelty Mental Health Resource Centre (BC Children’s Hospital): Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). link

Read the research

What sessions look like

  • Structure. Sessions have a clear agenda, a skill to learn and a small task to practise between sessions.
  • Play-based for younger children. For younger children, ideas are taught through games, drawing, puppets and stories.
  • Parents’ role. Parents learn the same skills so you can encourage your child and respond helpfully at home.

How it works

The steps of CBT.

Every child is different, so the pace and order change. This is the general path.

01

Learn the cycle

We map how a situation leads to a thought, a feeling and an action, using simple tools suited to your child’s age.

02

Build coping skills

We practise skills such as calming the body, challenging unhelpful thoughts and problem-solving, first in session, then in real life.

03

Take small steps

Your child tries new behaviours gradually, such as facing something avoided, so confidence grows through experience.

04

Keep it going

We review progress, plan for setbacks and make sure your child and family know how to use the skills on their own.

A tool we use

Finding words for big feelings.

Naming a feeling is often where CBT begins. This emotion wheel starts with six feelings in the centre: anger, happy, surprise, disgust, sad and fear. Each one then branches into more specific words, ring by ring.

Children and parents can start in the centre and work outward to find the word that fits best. The more precisely a feeling is named, the easier it becomes to understand and to respond to.

Wheel designed by Pamela Wallberg. Outer-ring word groupings draw on Parrott, W. G. (2001), Emotions in Social Psychology, Psychology Press.

Tap the wheel to enlarge it.

Emotion wheel in watercolour with six feelings in the centre (anger, happy, surprise, disgust, sad and fear), each branching into more specific feeling words in two outer rings

Where this approach helps

CBT is part of care for many concerns. Choose one to see how I work with it.

Related approaches

ERP → Mindfulness → Parent coaching →

Common questions

Is CBT right for neurodivergent children and youth?+

For neurodivergent children and youth, I will often adapt CBT to work with their specific learning profile.

Will my child need to do homework?+

Short, practical tasks between sessions help skills stick, but they are kept small and made as easy and engaging as possible.

Is CBT right for young children?+

Yes, in a play-based form. Very young children benefit most when parents are closely involved.

How is CBT different from just talking?+

CBT is active and goal-focused. We build specific skills and practise them, rather than only talking through what happened.

Ready to take a first step together?

You do not have to work this out alone. Book a free 15-minute call to talk about your child, your family and whether this approach fits.

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Trusted resources

More help for families in B.C.

Free, evidence-informed information from Kelty Mental Health at BC Children’s Hospital. These links open in a new tab.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) Kelty's overview of CBT.Types of therapy Compare common therapies.Confident Parents: Thriving Kids Free coached programs for BC parents of children aged 3 to 12 with mild to moderate anxiety or behaviour challenges. A referral is needed.

Information on this page is provided by Pamela Wallberg, MA, RCC, Registered Clinical Counsellor. Last updated October 2026. This page is general information and is not a substitute for individual care.

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