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Video game therapy  •  In person in Vancouver  •  Virtual across B.C.

Video game therapy for children and youth in Vancouver.

A shared game can be an easy, low-pressure way for children and teens to build trust, practise coping with frustration and talk about what matters to them, in person in Vancouver or online across B.C.

Understanding the approach

Games are a language many children and teens already speak.

For many young people, a game feels safer than a conversation. Sitting side by side and playing together takes away the pressure of eye contact and of having to find the right words.

In video game therapy, a shared game becomes the setting for the work. While we play, I notice how your child handles frustration, losing, taking turns and trying again, and we use those moments to practise coping skills, build trust and open conversations about worry, anger, friendships and school. The game is chosen with your child, not for them, and sessions are guided by me and tied to your child’s goals. It is not unstructured gaming time. Video game therapy may suit children and teens who find talking hard, who feel anxious, who have ADHD or autism, or whose interests centre on games and who want those interests taken seriously. I offer it in person in Vancouver, and online for children and youth across B.C., and it is offered as a unique approach to play therapy. For many children or youth who feel nervous or unhappy with the idea of therapy, video game play therapy can provide a safe entry point to therapeutic work.

Origins and evolution

Using games in therapy is not new. Therapists have long used board games and card games with children, and video games are now part of that tradition, with clinical guides and research reviews published over the past two decades.

Wilkinson, N., Ang, R. P., & Goh, D. H. (2008). Online video game therapy for mental health concerns: A review. International Journal of Social Psychiatry, 54(4), 370–382. link

Stone, J. (2022). Digital play therapy: A clinician’s guide to comfort and competence (2nd ed.). Routledge.

Stone, J. (2021). Game play: Therapeutic use of games with children and adolescents (3rd ed.; C. E. Schaefer, Ed.). Wiley.

Read the research

The science

Reviews of randomised trials suggest that therapeutic games can help children and teens with conditions such as ADHD, autism and anxiety. I use games to build connection and engagement, alongside other methods, and match them to your child’s interests.

Zayeni, D., Raynaud, J.-P., & Revet, A. (2020). Therapeutic and preventive use of video games in child and adolescent psychiatry: A systematic review. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 11. link

Choi, E., Yoon, E.-H., & Park, M.-H. (2022). Game-based digital therapeutics for children and adolescents: Their therapeutic effects on mental health problems, the sustainability of the therapeutic effects and the transfer of cognitive functions. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 13, 986687. link

Barnes, S., & Prescott, J. (2018). Empirical evidence for the outcomes of therapeutic video games for adolescents with anxiety disorders: Systematic review. JMIR Serious Games, 6(1), e3. link

Wilkinson, N., Ang, R. P., & Goh, D. H. (2008). Online video game therapy for mental health concerns: A review. International Journal of Social Psychiatry, 54(4), 370–382. link

Stone, J. (2022). Digital play therapy: A clinician’s guide to comfort and competence (2nd ed.). Routledge.

Read the research

What sessions look like

  • In person. A shared game on a console, computer or tablet, chosen with your child and suited to their age, alongside sand tray, art or other play if they want it. I prefer role play games when possible, and Minecraft and The Sims are the two games I use most with children and youth. Sessions are about 50 minutes.
  • Online. For virtual sessions, we play together online or use a game on your child’s own device, with a parent nearby if needed.
  • Parent involvement. Parents are part of the process, through regular check-ins and, when it helps, joint sessions, with simple ways to support the work at home.

How it works

The steps of video game therapy.

Every child is different, so the pace and order change. This is the general path.

01

Get to know your child

We begin with a parent session to understand your child, your family and what you hope will change. Your child then meets me at their own pace, and we talk about the games they enjoy.

02

Choose and play together

Your child helps choose the game. We play together while I stay close, noticing how your child plays, copes and connects with others.

03

Turn moments into skills

When a level feels frustrating or a round is lost, we pause, practise a calming skill or a new way of thinking, and try again. Over time the skills carry from the game into daily life.

04

Bring it home

I update you regularly and share simple ways to support what is happening in therapy, so the changes carry over to school, friendships and family life.

Where this approach helps

These approaches are part of care for many concerns. Choose one to see how I work with it.

Related approaches

Play therapy and art therapy → Mindfulness → CBT →

Common questions

Do you offer video game therapy in Vancouver?+

Yes. I offer video game therapy in person in Vancouver, and online for children and youth across British Columbia. A free 15-minute call is the first step.

How is video game therapy different from just gaming?+

A session has a purpose. We use a game to build trust, practise coping with frustration and teamwork, and open conversations. It is guided by me and tied to your child’s goals.

What ages is video game therapy for?+

Games are chosen to fit your child’s age and interests. Younger children are often supported through play and art as well, and teens may prefer games over toys.

What if my child is not interested in games?+

Then we use something else that suits them, such as play, art or activities. No child has to play video games to take part in therapy.

What are your qualifications to offer video game therapy?+

I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with a Master of Arts from the University of British Columbia and play therapy training. I use video games within counselling, alongside other approaches. You can read more on the training and workshops page.

Ready to take a first step together?

You do not have to work this out alone. Book a free 15-minute call to talk about your child, your family and whether this approach fits.

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Trusted resources

More help for families in B.C.

Free, evidence-informed information from Kelty Mental Health at BC Children’s Hospital. These links open in a new tab.

Healthy screen habits Kelty's guidance on screens and gaming at home.Developing a family tech plan A way to set shared tech rules.Play therapy Kelty's overview of play therapy.

Information on this page is provided by Pamela Wallberg, MA, RCC, Registered Clinical Counsellor. Last updated October 2026. This page is general information and is not a substitute for individual care.

Related: Play therapy and art therapy · Teen therapy · Family and filial therapy