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Child counselling and play therapy in Vancouver.

Play-based counselling for children ages 3 to 8 facing anxiety, major life changes, and the challenges that can come with autism or ADHD. In person in Vancouver, or online across B.C., with a Registered Clinical Counsellor.

Your child is not alone, and neither are you.

Young children rarely have the words for what they feel. It tends to come out as clinginess, meltdowns, worry at bedtime, or refusing to go to school or try new things. Many parents are left wondering what is typical and when to ask for help.

Children this age learn through play, so we play: with toys, sand, drawing and games, at your child’s pace. You are part of the work, with check-ins and family sessions that help what we practise carry over at home.

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Big feelings
Meltdowns that come out of nowhere.
Calm
Ways to settle that your child can use.
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Worry
Fears that keep your child close.
Courage
Facing fears in small, safe steps.
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Hard goodbyes
Clinging at drop-off or bedtime.
Confidence
Feeling safe when you are apart.
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Change at home
Separation, divorce or a move.
Security
Feeling steady through change.
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A new school
Starting or changing schools.
Ready
Feeling prepared for new places.
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Hard to say
Feelings that do not come out in words.
Expression
Play and art that say it for them.
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Feeling different
Finding it hard to fit in.
Belonging
Feeling understood as they are.
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Worn-out parents
Not knowing how to help.
Support
Tools and a team for your family.

My approach

Play is how young children work things out.

Children ages 3 to 8 do best when therapy feels like play, not a talk. I follow your child’s lead, use play and art to make feelings easier to show and understand, and share what we are learning with you so you can support them at home. Sessions can be in person in Vancouver or online anywhere in B.C.

Parents are involved at every step, from short check-ins to family sessions.

30+Over three decades of
listening to children’s voices.
Play

Play therapy

Children show what is hard through play long before they can say it. Sand tray, dollhouse and toys give feelings a safe place to be shown, understood and practised.

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Art

Art therapy

Drawing, painting and making help young children express feelings that are hard to put into words. No artistic skill is needed.

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Family

Family and filial therapy

Parents join sessions to strengthen connection and communication at home. In-session coaching shows you how to follow your child’s lead and respond to big feelings with steadiness.

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Kelty Mental Health Resource Centre (BC Children’s Hospital): Separation & Divorce: Helping Children Adjust to Family Changes. link

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What children come to therapy for

Every child is different. These are the concerns families most often bring to me for children ages 3 to 8, with parents involved throughout.

Anxiety and worry

Big worries, fears, separation anxiety or avoiding things that feel scary. Play-based therapy builds skills for facing fears at a pace that feels safe.

Big life changes

Separation or divorce, a move, a new school or a loss. Support gives children room to feel it and find their footing.

Autism and ADHD support

For children who are autistic or have ADHD, or are being assessed. Support for big feelings, transitions, friendships and anxiety, built around how your child plays and learns.

Pamela Wallberg

Let’s connect

Taking the first step is often the hardest. I’m here to answer your questions and help you decide whether this is the right path for your child.

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Free 15-min consultation

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Common questions

Do you offer child counselling and play therapy in Vancouver?+

Yes. I offer counselling and play therapy for children ages 3 to 8 in person in Vancouver and online across B.C. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with a Master of Arts in Education and play therapy training.

How does play therapy work for young children?+

Young children express themselves through play more easily than through words. In sessions your child plays and creates, with toys, sand, drawing and games, while I follow their lead, help them put feelings into words and teach simple coping skills. I share what we are learning with you so you can support it at home.

Will I be in the sessions?+

It depends on your child’s age and needs. Parents are involved at every stage, from short check-ins to sessions together, and we talk about what fits at the start. For online sessions, a parent is usually nearby for younger children.

What do children ages 3 to 8 work on in sessions?+

It depends on your child. Common goals are managing worries and fears, handling changes such as separation, divorce or a new school, and building skills for big feelings and transitions, including for children who are autistic or have ADHD. We use play and art, and I involve you throughout.

Do you work with children who are autistic or have ADHD?+

Yes. I support children who have an autism or ADHD diagnosis, or who are being assessed, and their parents. I do not diagnose autism or ADHD. In B.C. that is done by a paediatrician, psychiatrist or registered psychologist, and I can help you think through next steps. You can read more on the autism and ADHD support page.

Trusted resources

More help for families in B.C.

Free, evidence-informed information from Kelty Mental Health at BC Children’s Hospital. These links open in a new tab.

Anxiety in children and youth Kelty Mental Health: signs, causes and ways to help at home.Confident Parents: Thriving Kids Free coached programs for BC parents of children aged 3 to 12 with mild to moderate anxiety or behaviour challenges. A referral is needed.

Information on this page is provided by Pamela Wallberg, MA, RCC, Registered Clinical Counsellor. Last updated October 2026. This page is general information and is not a substitute for individual care.

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